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For the love of our parents

On Sunday, December 7, 2008

Miss this warm hug he gave to you, that brought all the safety in the world to you?!
Remember the smile in his eyes saying, "everything is gonna be alright", when you were so much in trouble??
Do you miss his support pushing you forward? He used to make you feel useful, a special person. You was a special person to him!!
I bet you miss him, like I miss my father!
Few years ago, he left this world. He left me to fight alone for my life!! No more support, no more care, and no more safety!!

Ever wondered what he could be doing right now, away, from this world??!! Did you ever reach an answer?! Let me give you a hint.

What are YOU doing right now?!

ME, and what do I have to do with this!!!

Yes, surely it's YOU! Did you ever notice we are our parents deeds?!!!

I know your father was just like mine, he didn't change the world or receive a Nobel prize.! He was just a normal person, all he made for this world was YOU!

So, what do you look like now?
Remember, when the phone rang, he asked you to answer, and told you, if it's "whoever" tell him I'm not here. Are you a liar???
Or maybe that day, when he had this fight in the street, with that man, and kept calling him with bad names. Do you do the same now?
Lets get this a bit complicated. Do you call your mother bad names, or even beat her? Did you ever wonder why you are doing this? Maybe you don't remember, but one day when you were young, you did the same and he just laughed!
And, that day, he saw you, watching the girls. He had this smile of proud of his son, who is growing to be a man. I'm sure, you still do the same. Or maybe, you are a sex addict now!!

I think you know now, what he could be doing down there. I know this is hurting. Maybe you never realized it. But it's time now, to show him how much you love him. It's time to change, to become a different person. Be his GOOD deed, not the BAD one!
Pray for him. Make this promise to God, that you won't do this again. I know it's not easy, specially if it has to do with habits. But just, make this promise, and whenever you feel you are falling again, remember your father, how much you love him, and how much you care for his eternal happiness. Let him rest in PEACE.

Don't forget, one day, you will be in his place and your children will be in yours. Take care please. Help him and help yourself, and all the generations to come!!

Lets make use of these holly days. Lets pray, supplicate, do everything we can. We want to change.
We need to change. We CAN change.

In my last battle with the devil, he won! And I'm not intending to let him win this time. Please, help me beat him!
Lets spread the word, to make a real thing out of this. Share with your friends. Give your comments.For the love of our parents!!

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