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The Secret

Did you ever think you are the victim of the world?! Did it ever feel like the whole universe has worked together to create your miserable destiny?! Here is a nice surprise; you are the victim of yourself!!

Lately, I had the opportunity, or the luck, or lets say I had the POWER to ATTRACT some book to my life; "The Secret". This worldwide famous book, talking about the lately revealed secret. The secret that was NEVER a secret! Yes, we have always known it, and it ALWAYS works!

So, what is "The Secret"? The secret is simply the law of attraction, or the law of love as named before. And, the law of attraction says"like ATTRACTS like", i.e. positive thoughts attract good events, and negative thoughts attract bad events! As stated in the book, and as I totally believe, and have always known and experienced; when you THINK of something, you emit signals, of a special frequency. And, since like attracts like, your signals attract people, events and situations of the same frequency.

So, it's very clear, how we can be the victims of our thoughts and that the world, the whole universe is not responsible for whatever bad luck, or misfortune we may meet. If we should blame, the whole blame should go to ourselves, no one else is responsible! It's never bad luck or persecution from the world! And though, I would never suggest blaming. Never blame yourself or hate it. Whatever wrong you did, you SURELY never meant to do it, it all came from your limited experience. And remember, don't think negatively, if you intend to get control over your life the coming years. Start loving yourself, and believing that you deserve the best. And, I would recommend reading this book. The book has lots of inspiring stories, and rules, and mistakes we maybe doing, that cause us the misfortune.

While, I was reading this book, I remembered all the things I was taught about change, optimism, faith. Everything that was stated in the book, we have always known it, nothing is new! And as God said in the Holy Quran:
"إن الله لا يغير ما بقوم حتى يغيروا ما بأنفسهم" -- God does not change the condition of people until they change it themselves.
If, you need to change your life, you need to change what's inside of you.
And as we all know, this will start with thinking, and thinking leads to emotions, and the emotions will emit the signals, and the change is there!

God gave us the clue to all of our problems, but we refuse to use it. We always prefer negative thinking that ruins our lives! But, why is that? Why are we so weak? Why do we let our minds control us? Is it really about our minds, leading us in a way of negative thinking with no end?! I think we are reaching the same conclusion here!!!

Like everything, for every bad in our lives, for all the evil, for all the sadness. This is another weapon of his!!! You prefer negative thinking, you find it easier to achieve. You enjoy being the victim, and start pity yourself, and beg pity from the rest of the world. Exactly, the same way you enjoyed smoking your first cigarette at the backyard of your school, when no one was watching! The wrong always looks better to do, easier, joyful! Then, when it's over, you wake up with regret! And the pain starts!!

I believe this should be the same way you deal with your negative thinking. A negative thought is another weapon of Satan, you should let it go. Replace it with a positive one, and let the positive grow, follow your dreams, believe in them. Believe in your power, and the love of God for you. He always wants the best for you! And you ALWAYS push that best away, just because it's easier this way!!

I really recommend reading this book, because I'm sure it will change your life, as it started to change mine. And there's another book that I would recommend about thinking and it's power, and how it can affect you and your life. The book is titled; "قوة التفكير" -- The Power of thinking by Dr. Ibrahim El Fiky.

Lets make the new start together, hoping for better lives and a better world for everyone.
Since I read that book I started;
  1. Being optimistic, no matter how things look like
  2. Trying to be happy; by listening to joyful music, or being in the company of funny people, or watching comedy movies and so on.
  3. Loving everyone around, loving the whole world, loving myself. Even pretending as if I'm happy in love. The book says that Love frequency is the best of all!!
  4. Making my wishes clear, focusing on my thinking, believing I would get what I want.
Happy Ramadan, happy NEW START.

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  1. I like your post, mashaAllah! ..Now I feel something like good positive energy flowing by my body :). Thank you Naela dear, keep working on it and thank you for sharing with us your experience and lessons. I love you sis ♥

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