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Love, new rules!!

On Monday, July 7, 2008

Of course, all of you listened to the new album for "Tamer Hosny". Like everyone, I bought the album after the first time I listened to it. I admit the guy has some good talent, in composing music. I didn't care much about the lyrics, as for my previous experience with him, he's not that good writer, just "ay kalam ma3 el music..w eshta". I liked the song "esma w naseeb", but after concentrating with the lyrics, I was surprised with the meaning behind the words. As I could notice, there are new rules in love, some strange rules, things that we were not brought upon!! Seems, that I've been away from this world for quite too long.

Well, here are some sentences of the lyrics of this song, that have those rules!!!
I need your opinions guys, as I'm really surprised this is how LOVE looks like nowadays!!!

و يا ريت يطمن خوفها، مش هقول كان بيننا إيه
أي واحدة ممكن تضعف ادام حبيبها ده شئ أكيد
و أنا أكثر واحد عارف من جواها ملاك قلبه رقيق
واللي كان بيننا في عينايا، ذكريات، إحساس برئ
حتى أنا اللي بعدك حبيتها، طلعت أنا في حبها، مش أول حب في حياتها
ما احنا أخدنا حاجات كثير ما كانتش أصلا حقنا

New Rules:
1. Any girl can go into a relationship
2. Never mind how far this relationship goes, even if it ends with no marriage!!
3. The girl shouldn't be ashamed of the love she had and whatever she did with whomever she loved
4. No hard feelings, a guy should find it ok, if his girl was in a previous relationship with another man, and he shouldn't ask or feel bad for this!!

Why am I writing this??! I think we are falling!! This is not our society! These are not our traditions or morals!! Not our RELIGION, maybe some of you would find the whole topic of love away from religion, but I believe love is a part of our religion, if ended by the normal end, marriage!!!

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