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It's complicated!

Same hearts broken ... Same tears ... Same feelings ... Same complications ... Same old story ... Only two different souls ...
How sarcastic it is to watch the same story going over and over again. And it only goes this way, because those people really loved each other. If they never did, it would have gone much more simpler. Lovers, soul mates, or whatever name you may give to them. They are just two hearts tied together and they both know how together they become a unique soul that can give a lot to the world. But, unfortunately, it's complicated!

So, lets see where the complication starts. In about 90% of the stories I've been through, it was always the same mistake. One of the hearts, looks at his weaknesses, and so believes the other is too good for them. And that it would be much better for that other, if he leaves silently and peacefully! And, so stupidly, he does that, without even talking to the other, or even asking what they could be thinking of, or if they had another opinion! No, just leave silently with your weakness, and watch them living happily without you! Now, it's complicated!

Time goes by, the hearts meet again, and blame each other for what happened, they hurt each other, and so, it gets more complicated... And, they leave again!

Time still goes by, and now, each has got their responsibilities, life is not easy as they thought! Now, they meet again, they both grew much older, much stronger but maybe not wiser, remembering the old days, the week heart regrets the decision he made long ago!! But, with the responsibilities, there is no turning back, and it gets even more complicated!

Leave and comeback, back and forth, the years pass, and it gets complicated. A fight inside with no clue, which to choose. Be brave enough and face it, or stay same weak and live with the complications and fight inside for the rest of their lives. Only brave hearts choose to face it, but brave is not a common trait. That's why most of the stories have the sad endings. A lifetime pain, with no cure. But, for the brave, life can turn at any moment to a fairy tale!

Wish you braveness. Wish you love and forever happiness.


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